Debbie S. is More Than Pink — Meet a Survivor & New 3-Day Walker

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As our 2018 3-Day season draws closer and closer, we are welcoming past AVON 39 walkers into our 3-Day® family. We want to show them the 3-Day love, because they are a wonderful addition to our cause and they are More Than Pink®.

Debbie S., will also be a proud member of our survivor and those living with metastatic breast cancer community when she joins the San Diego 3-Day in November.

Debbie was officially declared cancer-free in 2005, and since then has been an active crusader for a cure for breast cancer, as well as a staunch supporter and inspiration for those undergoing their own treatment.

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She participated in her first AVON 39 while still bald from her own treatment, and has walked in six AVON 39’s since then. She has also spoken at a breast cancer charity event in Los Angeles, A Cause for Entertainment, and was featured in Avon’s commercial last year. To say she lives to be a part of the fight against breast cancer is an understatement.

“It is so important to keep walking and raising funds for research and awareness! This is what is going to ultimately help cure this disease! Everyone knows about the strides that organizations, such as Susan G. Komen and Avon, have made and I am often asked why other cancers don’t do the same things. My answer is always: They should, you should! Raising funds and awareness is the most important thing!”

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That is why Debbie knew she could not hang up her walking shoes in 2018. She had to keep going, and was excited to join the 3-Day family. Her excitement extends towards fundraising, which she says was one of the things that drew her to the 3-Day in the first place.

“I’m actually most excited about raising more money and walking with others who are doing it for the same reasons I am: a cure! I’m always excited to show everyone how you can beat breast cancer and persevere. Nothing can stop us if we are determined!”

She is determined, in fact, to raise $25,000 this year alone, and has already raised almost $3,000 in the first 24 hours after registering. Though she says she began her fundraising journey with “The mentality that the minimum was enough,” she soon realized that “It is never enough! With every walk, my goal is to beat my last walk!”

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How does she do it? With the same passion and exuberance that has stayed with her throughout her breast cancer journey. She starts via email, sending messages to everyone in her address book (whether she knows them or not!) as well as to any emails she can collect from friends and family. She begins emailing at least six months before her walk, also using social media to kickstart her efforts.

After that, she sends reminder emails to everyone who has not donated on the first of each month. As the event approaches, she will kick it up another notch.

“About two months before the walk, I will start sending it every two weeks. The last month, I will send it every week and eventually daily! I break them all down! They all give! I also upload my letter, with my story, to my personal page for the walk.”

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Simple, but effective, is her approach, and one that has shown great success in the past. This is not just how she approaches fundraising, but how she approaches life in general.

“Being a survivor means everything to me! It means that being strong and having a positive attitude goes a long way! It means I can assure others that they can survive too! Because I am proof!”

If you see Debbie on the 3-Day route in San Diego, say hello and share a hug! She is walking solo this year, but can’t wait to meet new friends and share her story and dream of a world without breast cancer.

Honoring a Mother’s Legacy of Love: Meet Ryan D. of the Philadelphia 3-Day

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“I walk 60 miles so my wife, daughter, friends and those I don’t even know, don’t have to fear this disease. I walk so every grandchild can be spoiled by their grandmothers. I walk today so others will not have to walk tomorrow. I walk because everyone deserves a lifetime.”

Mother’s Day is a chance to honor the women who mean the most to us, whether they are able to celebrate with us or not. For Philadelphia 3-Dayer Ryan D., this means that on Sunday he will not only be celebrating his wife, the mother of his children, but also the mother he lost to breast cancer.

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“Mother’s Day is one of the days I do take time and specifically reflect on my mother and remember all of the great Mother’s Day we celebrated.”

He has been walking “For Mama Doc” since losing her in 2011, spreading her loving and giving spirit with every step he takes. On this holiday, and always, he wants to ensure that no one else loses a mother to breast cancer. The 3-Day, he says, is a new part of his family, and one that helps him remember his mother in the best ways.

“I really wish everyone who has been impacted by this terrible disease could experience a 3-Day at least once, and I can tell you for sure it wouldn’t be their last. It is even hard for me to verbalize what the experience is. There is just something to be said about walking when you are sore and both physically and emotionally spent, to then have a car honk their horn or have someone say, ‘Thank you for walking.’ […] The 3-Days have been some amazing moments of my life.”

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In addition to his 3-Day family, he has been able to share his experience with his brother, who joined Ryan’s mission, and started walking in 2016. They were motivated, in part, to walk together because Philadelphia’s Closing Ceremony that year fell on what would have been their mother’s birthday. They walked all sixty miles together, and each crossed the finish line with their young daughters in their arms. Seeing the 3-Day anew from his brother’s eyes, Ryan says, brought them even closer.

“You can never truly appreciate what a 3-Day truly means until you participate in one. And I saw firsthand the awe on my brother’s face while he walked the first few miles and experienced these things that are so hard to explain.”

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Other family members support them, with Ryan’s dad even walking next to him for a few miles of Ryan’s first ever walk in 2012. They also have helped Ryan raise nearly $25,000 for the 3-Day cause, a landmark he hopes to pass this year. He also looks forward to once again feeling the support of the 3-Day community this fall.

This support is one he especially appreciates given that it was so important to his own mother to support those battling breast cancer. Following her initial recovery from breast cancer in 2009, she mentored countless people suffering from cancer by offering comfort and advice. Though “through the path of recovery there is tremendous uncertainty, fear, pain and self-esteem issues,” Ryan saw his mother provide support, guidance and empathy. This is true to how she lived her whole life, and how Ryan hopes to live his to best honor her legacy.

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“During these last years, my Mom has missed many wonderful events, which include her youngest son’s wedding, witnessing the births of her two beautiful granddaughters and a grandson. I walk to help ensure that no other family misses these special moments with their mothers.”

Ryan walks, and will never quit, for mothers everywhere. Today, and always, hold your family close, and remember that you walk for a reason. You walk for Ryan, for “Mama Doc,” and for families all over the world. And you will never quit either, until we end breast cancer forever.

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Health on the Hill: Komen Advocacy Summit Recap by Melissa Loder

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2018 Komen Advocacy Summit

Washington D.C.

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Day One of the Summit

Expecting cherry blossoms and spring in D.C., I was dismayed when Nor’easter Toby was predicted to dump 10 to 12 inches of snow on DC on Tuesday and Wednesday of Summit week. My alarm went off at 5:00 am Wednesday and I anxiously looked at my phone for flight updates – it was scheduled ON TIME! I can’t describe how excited I was that I was going to get to DC in time for the Advocacy Summit activities that afternoon.

While most participants worked for a Komen Affiliate or Komen HQ, my nametag read “Komen 3-Day Champion”. I was a bit startled, but decided I could live with being a champion for our 3-Day fight!

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Watching others enter the registration area, there were lots of squeals and hugs. I felt a little like the in-law who hasn’t met the extended family yet. Thankfully the Komen family is an easy family to find your place. The meeting started promptly with a welcome and a launch into the current relevant political landscape on the Hill. Our task became clear – we were going to focus on three key issues and have a specific request for legislators on each issue:

  1. For Fiscal Years 2018 and 2019 (FY18 and FY19), increase the appropriation for the National Breast and Cervical Early Detection Program to the authorized $275 million amount. This program is in place to assist low income, uninsured and underinsured women in accessing breast and cervical cancer screening. It is a state-federal partnership and was established in 1990. This program is a complement to Komen’s screening and diagnostic grants and is critical to make sure all women can receive the early detection they deserve.
  2. For FY18 and FY19, increase NIH funding for biomedical research by $2 billion per year. The National Cancer Institute (NCI) is housed within the National Institutes of Health (NIH). While recent years have seen increased funding for NIH, it is still behind biomedical inflation and much more money is needed to continue to keep up with current domestic and international research for cancer.
  3. For House Members, become a cosponsor of H.R.1409, the Cancer Drug Coverage Parity Act and for Senators, be aware of this House Bill and ready to vote yes when it hopefully makes it to the Senate. This bill would simply make insurers in every state and territory to treat oral medications for cancer covered under pharmacy benefits at the same benefit level as IV medications covered under medical benefits. This is already a state law in 43 states, including Texas, but is not a federal law.

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The meeting then covered the importance of having our voices heard on the Hill! This was particularly helpful because they explained how little time we might have with a legislator and that we may just meet with their staff and it may be in an office, or a hallway, or the waiting room as space is limited. Knowing this made it clear that it was not a personal insult, but rather they wanted to hear from as many constituents as possible so they fit people where they could find space!

After dinner we were all excited to hear Paula Schneider, Komen’s new CEO, talk to us about her life, her cancer journey and why she is so passionate to take the lead with Komen. During her personal and moving talk, she had us all hold up a hand if we were survivors, co-survivors or knew someone with breast cancer. You can imagine the entire room had their hands in the air!

Paula also spoke of the hidden costs of breast cancer; she reiterated that women of color in the U.S. are 40% more likely to die of their breast cancer than white women, and that more research focus must go toward metastatic disease (both parts of Komen’s Bold Goal of reducing death from breast cancer 50% in the U.S. by 2026).

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Next to the stage came the one and only, Nancy Brinker! As you can imagine, we all felt as if we were in the presence of a rock star! She was as passionate, beautiful, gracious and well-spoken as you would expect. She took us back to the beginning when the word “breast” could not be spoken in public to where we are today. She reviewed her promise to her sister Suzy and the growth of the Susan G. Komen organization and the new international focus she has taken. Nancy quoted Marie Curie, “I never see what has been done, I only see what needs to be done” as her inspiration for moving forward to focus on disparities in breast health and all the programs she is involved in around the world.

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Thursday, March 22, 2018

Day 2 and Hill Day

I woke up early, excited and a bit nervous about the day and the task ahead. It was exciting to learn at breakfast that the House had passed their version of the FY18 budget late the night before! The good news was our first ask to increase funding for the NBCCEDP had received a $9 million increase for FY18, bringing it to $197 million. Now we had to adjust our ask to a thank you for the increase this year but please keep it going for FY19 and get to the $275 million goal. The BIG news was about the NIH funding! Rather than the $2 billion increase for NIH we had hoped for, the House had passed a $3 billion dollar increase for NIH! So, a HUGE thank you for FY18 was added to our ask, along with a request to keep the increase going for FY19. It is safe to say that as a group we were a big bunch of happy campers that morning!

Because the first visit of the day was to a Senator, the entire sharply dressed group from Texas was assigned this meeting. Ready for battle, we were greeted by Senator Cornyn’s staffer in charge of health issues and he ushered our large group into a side hallway as we were overflowing the Senator’s office. Knowing we would not be granted much time, we quickly introduced ourselves and launched into Komen’s Bold Goal and discussed the three issues and “asks.” The survivors of the group (including me) all contributed personal narratives to the legislative issues. We took a great Texan group photo with the staffer in front of Senator Cornyn’s office. This large meeting was a profound beginning to our time on the Hill.

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After this meeting, we split up to start the small group meetings – we had a lot of House offices to cover that day! I was lucky to be partnered with Eliza May, the VP of Mission Services and Community Outreach from the Komen Austin Affiliate. This was her sixth time to advocate at the national level, and had previously worked in both state and federal government in several capacities prior to coming to Komen. I’d say I hit the jackpot! Eliza and I had four more scheduled meetings and another nine representatives who were not officially scheduled but we wanted to at least go by and drop off an information packet.

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Eliza and I felt like we made the perfect team. It is unusual to meet someone and work seamlessly from the beginning, but we did! Not only did we do some serious discussing of the issues with our legislator’s staff, we even got an impromptu meeting with a staff member of Representative Henry Cuellar because Eliza grew up a block away from Representative Cuellar and asked his staff to leave him a note.

We walked over 14,000 steps (Fitbit certified) while on the Hill and made a total of 14 visits to legislators’ offices. Along the way we had some fun and cracked each other up; half from exhaustion and jubilation, and half simply because we had some funny adventures! To say we were proud would be an understatement, and to say we were exhausted would also be an understatement!

Despite our exhaustion, Eliza and I made use of the Senate Gallery passes we had been given by Senator Cornyn’s office. It was quite impressive, although there were many, many empty chairs given the impending government shut down. Somehow, they did still manage to get the $1.3 trillion budget in front of the President by Thursday where he signed it into law!

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After a brief stop at the Komen reception we joined Ginny Kirklin, Houston Affiliate advocate, for some tapas. I hate to admit it, but we ate enough tapas for a family of 8! We concluded that it was also well earned and no guilt was allowed! A solid night’s sleep followed.

Friday March 23, 2018

Day Three and Final Day of the Summit

After sleeping the dreamless sleep of the righteous (ok, maybe the dreamless sleep of the overfull stomach), I woke up with an Advocacy Hangover (stole this term from someone else but it was very fitting). We began with a breakfast where we all compared notes and stories from the previous day. It seemed that everyone had a hugely successful day on the Hill.

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Our final program was about the state of Medicaid in the states. A panel representing government, insurance and medical economic research discussed Medicaid and Medicaid expansion considering the ACA, and States’ right to waivers. Without going into details, it was a wonderful presentation that educated us all and confirmed that Medicaid and Medicaid waivers are a very complex issue between states and the federal government. Some interesting statistics about Medicaid that I didn’t realize:

  • 1 in 5 Americans is covered by Medicaid
  • 25% of the state budget in most states goes toward Medicaid
  • 50% of all births in the U.S. are covered by Medicaid
  • Medicaid is the single largest provider of long-term care in the U.S.

The take-home message from this panel is this – states are trying to improve their health care system while being good stewards of taxpayer money in a crazy political system.

Our final speaker was Vicki Sumner *, a 44-year-old, 8-year Met thriver who spoke of her difficult journey with metastatic breast cancer. The median survival rate after a metastatic diagnosis is 24 to 36 months. She has far surpassed those months but she now faces her 12-year-old daughter who is asking the hard questions. She wants to be able to give her better answers. She made a strong appeal for new chemotherapies, targeted therapies and immunotherapies. Increased funding for metastatic disease is CRITICAL if we are to achieve the Bold Goal.

As she concluded, there was not a dry eye in the room. THIS is the reason we were in Washington D.C. and why we must all continue to walk, to bring new walkers to the 3-Day, to raise money and awareness and we must all be advocates with our legislators. They can make a substantial difference and we need their collaboration. We can be heard but only when we raise our voices as one.

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*Our friend Vicki Sumner, who inspired us all last month in D.C. with her metastatic breast cancer journey and urgent call for more research funding, passed away this week. She was a devoted wife and mother, and a passionate advocate. Her passing is a tragic reminder of the importance of our work together. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. Vicki, along with all those we have lost to this terrible disease, remain the inspiration for our work.