San Diego Milestone Award Winner: Stephen Y.

Meet Stephen Y., our 2024 San Diego 3-Day Milestone Award Winner!

Over the past 13 years, Stephen has participated in 37 Susan G. Komen 3-Day® events, raising a lifetime total of more than $152,000 and promises to walk until we find the cures. Following his wife Karen’s breast cancer diagnosis in 2005, he began participating in the Komen 3-Day as a crew member while she walked. As her disease progressed and Karen was unable to walk, Stephen stepped into her shoes, vowing to his wife that he would never miss an event.

“Our cousin Stephen is a remarkable individual, embodying strength and resilience in the face of profound loss. He has participated in the 3-Day® since 2011 to raise funds for cancer research. He always says that he doesn’t want anyone else to suffer the pain and grief that his family did. Stephen is driven by the memory of his beloved wife, Karen, who bravely battled breast cancer. With each step, he carries her spirit, honoring her legacy and raising awareness for a cause that is deeply personal to him.

His passion is palpable, always seen with a determined smile and a heart full of purpose as he reaches out to encourage others. He connects with fellow participants, sharing stories of love and loss, creating a supportive community. Through fundraising efforts and outreach, he spreads hope and inspires others to join the fight against cancer. His journey is not just about walking; it’s a heartfelt tribute to the love he and Karen shared along with their three children. It is a testament to his commitment to make a difference in the lives of those affected by cancer. He is a beacon of hope, reminding everyone around him of the power of love and perseverance.” —Alyse, David, Shayna, Marc, Ethan, Bella & Haley

What was your inspiration to do your first Susan G. Komen 3-Day?

My wife started walking when she got cancer the first time. When she got cancer the second time and could not walk, I said, “I’ll do your walk to keep the continuity going.” So that was my first walk in 2011 to keep her legacy alive while she was back in treatment, going through chemo.

What has brought you back to the 3-Day year after year?

There are multiple reasons in addition to my wife, but, certainly, the Pink Bubble is part of what brings me back. What my family went through and lives on a day-to-day basis is really horrible, and I really feel like nobody else should have to go through this. I have the power to do something about it, or I have the power to say somebody should do something about it. So instead of saying somebody should do something about it, I get out and do what I can.

Nobody should live with this disease. It’s really horrible. And, also, what if my daughter were to get breast cancer and I wasn’t doing something about it? I can’t say I’m doing everything, because everything’s too strong of a word, but I feel like I’m doing my share, and if everybody does their share, I think we’ll get where we need to go.

What is the secret to your 3-Day fundraising success?

Ask everybody in sight. I keep little cards in my wallet because you never know who you’ll run into. You hand them a card, and they might or might not make a donation. It turns into a conversation, and I turn it around and say, hey, I’m doing this. Maybe you’d like to join me on a walk or make a donation. When you get a donation, great, when you don’t, oh, well. But, even if I don’t get a donation, I’ve done something to increase awareness.

I also sell See’s Candy and I practically fund one walk with them, so selling some kind of a product is helpful. Match partners are really helpful, and I also have some very generous donors.

What is the best advice you would give to anyone walking the 3-Day?

You have to get past your first walk to really enjoy it, because the first time out, you’re like, “What did I get myself into?” But you need to enjoy the people you’re with. It’s about sharing stories; it’s about recognizing we’re all there for a similar reason or cause. We’re all in this fight together so it’s important to listen to what everybody else has to say.

Make sure you train. I do way better when I train, and I wear sandals. It’s important to find what’s right for you. You have to walk your own walk; don’t try to walk somebody else’s walk. If you try to walk somebody else’s walk for 60 miles, you’ll be hurting.

It’s a wonderful thing when you happen to find somebody you’re very compatible with, walking speed, style, conversationally and you guys could just go on for hours. That’s a wonderful thing that happens sometimes, but you just got to do your own walk. You got to breathe.

What are the most important lessons you’ve learned on the 3-Day?

I learned that we’re not all alone out there. When you or someone you love gets cancer, you feel like you’re the only one. When disaster strikes, you always feel like you’re the only person this has ever happened to. But at the 3-Day you learn that you’re not really so alone.

What’s a fun fact about you?

When Karen and I dated I mailed her a card every single day. It didn’t start in the very beginning, but at some given point in the relationship, we lived an hour plus apart by car, so I used to just go to the store and buy a stack of thinking of you cards or something to that effect. Because the post office is closed one day a week, she might have got two some days, none some days, but the goal was for her to get one card a day. I have a box somewhere in my house of all those cards. Every day, now, I wear a bracelet that holds Karen’s ashes and a necklace that contains a piece of jewelry I bought her in the early stages of dating. The piece that belonged to her says “It’s Magic” and, when I gave it to her, I had no idea that her late father was an amateur magician, so it was extra special to her.

Also, I love to go water skiing. My family and I go to the lake one week a year and use the boat; I just think about how many smiles we get out of that one week. I also grew up sailing and I taught woodshop for years.

“From my perspective as Stephen’s coach for many years, many of us can only hope to be loved and cherished as much as Stephen loves and cherishes Karen.” —Coach Staci

Dallas/Fort Worth Crew Impact Award Winner: Barbara J.

Meet Barbara J., our 2024 Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day Crew Impact Award Winner!

Since her first Susan G. Komen 3-Day® 14 years ago, Barbara has participated 21 times and has raised a lifetime total of nearly $3,000. Since 2007, she has served as Medical Crew and Medical Crew Captain in Denver, Chicago, Seattle, and Dallas/Fort Worth, bringing a fierce attitude and color-coded schedule each time.

“Barb has been volunteering at the Komen 3-Day since before I knew her. In fact, the first time I heard about the 3-Day® was when she told me about this awesome event she volunteered at every year. She invited me to join her volunteering at the 3-Day the next year. That was 2008, and I have volunteered with her ever since. Her passion and dedication to the mission of helping eliminate breast cancer and helping people in general is infectious. I often marvel at the energy and passion she puts into making sure all our walkers are safe and able to participate to the fullest. She is just amazing, and I thought that even before I married her.” —Dr. Curtis J.

What was your inspiration to do your first 3-Day???

My mom found her insurance policy falling short when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Grants from Susan G. Komen funded the organizations that facilitated her mastectomy and care.

What has brought you back to the 3-Day year after year?

I came in 2007 to do the 3-Day once at the insistence of my late husband, who was ill himself at the time with cancer, to pay back that “debt.” So many treatments cross over from one cancer to another and several of his treatments were brought about through breast cancer research. He passed away six weeks after that event, and the love I found there coupled with the memories of that first time helped sustain me in the following times. I come back to continue to pass on that love.

What is your favorite aspect of crewing the 3-Day?

For me, the 3-Day is a series of core memory events that help me remember why I became a nurse. Outside the daily travails of clinical nursing, the 3-Day is a time to give someone else a core memory.

What is your best advice to anyone crewing the 3-Day?

Breathe and enjoy every moment, even when you are exhausted. Look at the participants’ faces; it’s all there.

What’s a fun fact about you?

When I was in college, my grandmother would tell me she was helping with the “little neighbor girl,” but I don’t ever recall Gramma telling me her name. During my first time at the Seattle 3-Day, I became close to a social worker assigned to my crew. A year later, after trying to figure out why we felt so familiar to each other, we discovered that she was the “little neighbor girl,” brought together divinely by my Gramma. That same Seattle event is also where I met one of my besties, who absolutely did not like me upon our first meeting. We laugh about that to this day.

“Barb is an overall kind human. She is fiercely protective of those she adopts into her family and would do anything for them. As a captain she is detail oriented, approachable and makes a mean colorful schedule. I have been blessed to have known her for many years and have had some awesome experiences with her.” — Clay R.

Congratulations Barbara!

2024 Susan G. Komen Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day Event Recap!

The Pink Bubble traded their cowboy boots for walking shoes as we headed to the Lone Star State for the Susan G. Komen Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day. From November 1-3,625 walkers and 220 crew members raised a total of $2.2 million for breast cancer research, community health, patient care and advocacy.

Day 1

Walkers began at the Opening Ceremony where we welcomed our new Susan G. Komen 3-Day® host, Beverly Kruse, a breast cancer survivor. Karen D. shared her incredible story as a 44-year-old breast cancer survivor following her diagnosis in April 2024. She is walking in honor of herself, her aunt who passed away from the disease, her friend who is a six-year thriver, and in hope that her stepdaughters and niece never have to hear those four daunting words “you have breast cancer.” “It’s the least I can do for all women and girls,” she shared. Following, Kelley H. shared that in 2004 her best friend Kim was diagnosed with breast cancer, saying, “I remember her son asked one time ‘Why do you have to have cancer?’ and she said ‘Why not? Why not me?’” So, when Kim asked Kelley to walk in 2007, she quickly said yes, walking every year since. In 2014, Kim was diagnosed again, this time with metastatic breast cancer and with her grit and determination she underwent rigorous treatments and participated in countless clinical trials. Ten years later, at the 2024 Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day, Kim walked as a thriver hand-in-hand with her best friend Kelley, who sported a stunning bedazzled cane. Both Karen and Kim joined the sea of survivors and thrivers to lead the way out on the route across the Mohawk Flooring Pink Carpet.

Throughout the day, walkers got to experience an abundance of what the city has to offer as they passed by the JFK Memorial, the Giant Eyeball sculpture, and T. Boone Pickins Cancer Center, a prominent cancer treatment and research center where groundbreaking medical advancements are achieved. Pit stops were decked out with themes from Ducks to Toy Story, where walkers were greeted with all of Andy’s favorite toys, a photo booth, and music reminding us that we’ve all got a friend in the Pink Bubble! As they continued their journey, walkers got to pass by the stunning White Rock Lake and Cattle Drive Sculptures, before returning to camp to rest their feet and enjoy all that Bank of America brings to the Komen 3-Day!

The beloved Bank of America massage chairs were a hit as we geared up for the Celebration of Champions where our National Presenting Sponsor awarded our Top Fundraisers, Milestone Award Winner, and Crew Impact Award Winners with donations of up to $500 for their 2025 3-Day® fundraising. They also hosted a raffle where five Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day participants won $250 toward their 2025 fundraising efforts; talk about generous! To wrap up the evening our 3-Day hosts Beverly and Lori taught a dance before walkers and crew rested up for the next day!

Day 2

After enjoying a delicious breakfast and welcoming our 2-Day Walkers, the Pink Bubble went mobile as we hopped aboard buses to Fort Worth. Our Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day Ultimate Event Experience winner, Jessica M., led the way, accompanied by her 17-year-old daughter Gianna, who reminds us of the next generation we walk for. During the qualifying period, Jessica raised over $7,000 with a good old fashioned bake sale!

Once in Fort Worth, walkers were able to enjoy the Meg and May Mural, Fort Worth Water Gardens, and Sundance Square Plaza before being greeted by a large cheering station outside of Paddock Park. Here, walkers were welcomed by 4-year-old Aspen who was working hard to draw in chalk and hand out lollipops to walkers who passed by. With a sweet treat in hand, they could play a bit of hopscotch and receive a rating from one of our supporters; everyone seemed to get a perfect 10/10! Another supportive family had flown in from all over the country to cheer on walkers, including their loved ones. Walkers continued toward the Museum District where, outside of the National Cowgirl Museum & Hall of Fame, the beloved father/son duo of Moose and Dan cheered on every single walker. With big smiles on their faces, walkers made their way toward the Raining Tacos Mural and TCU Campus before hopping aboard a 3-Day bus back to camp.

Once returned to camp, walkers were greeted by Youth Corps, crew, and supporters who cheered them straight to the buffet where they could get a hearty helping of mac ’n’ cheese. We welcomed back our last walker before Youth Corps kicked off the Honor Ceremony by sharing their reason for participating. After speeches from two participants, the entire room lit candles and wrote on luminaria bags to honor those who they walk for, placing each reason for walking in front of the stage. With a sea of light shimmering in the dark, we remembered that this is why we walk; because we must.

Day 3

After departing the hotel, walkers passed through Dealey Plaza, known as the “birthplace of Dallas,” the unassuming brick-paved square that has borne witness to many pivotal moments in Dallas and American history. From here, walkers were able to get a glimpse of the House of Blues, Oak Lawn Rainbow Gateway Sign and Legacy of Love Monument, and Pay It No Mind mural. We met with an XPO employee, Turstacy, who was a 1-Day Walker walking in honor of her mother, a breast cancer survivor, and for everyone else. Though she arrived alone for her very first 3-Day, she quickly made friends in true Pink Bubble fashion!

As walkers continued along the route, the skies opened up and participants were instructed to shelter in place for their safety for a bit until the storm passed. As the sun began poking back out, walkers passed through the AT&T Discovery District as they made their final strides into the Finish Line Festival at Reunion Lawn, boasting a stunning view of the Dallas skyline. As we welcomed in all of our walkers, everyone was able to enjoy the festivities including a photo at the Nature’s Bounty wings, free samples, and a chance to meet Marnie, the artist who designed the booth and bags gifted to the participants.

As our last walkers came in, the Pink Bubble gathered to cheer them on until the Last Walker Flag was raised. The Closing Ceremony began and we welcomed our incredible crew before raising our shoes to celebrate and honor the survivors and thrivers who joined us over the last few days. United in spirit, it was revealed that the 2024 Dallas/Fort Worth 3-Day raised an outstanding $2.2 million in the fight against breast cancer, prompting a well-deserved dance party to close out the tremendous event.