Raising Awareness for Male Breast Cancer at the 3-Day

Jake Messier is living with metastatic breast cancer and is seen at chemotherapy.

Jake M.,54, is preparing to walk his first Susan G. Komen Boston 3-Day® with one goal in mind: to raise awareness that men can get breast cancer, too. 

In 2023, Jake discovered a lump in his armpit while putting on deodorant. 

“In the moment, I thought it was weird, but I went on with my day,” Jake said. “Guys aren’t taught that when we find a lump, we should tell somebody.” 

He didn’t mention it until a routine physical months later. 

“My primary care physician listed off about 10 things that it could be and none of them were breast cancer,” Jake recalled. “But I’m thankful he wanted to be ultra sure and sent me for an ultrasound and mammogram, and then that snowballed to a biopsy.” 

Jake was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer—but he believes it was likely more advanced. 

Jake Messier and his wife are preparing to walk in the Susan G. Komen Boston 3-Day.

“I know I was likely misdiagnosed stage 2 and was actually stage 3,” Jake explained. “Then about a year later when it traveled to my hip, that’s when it metastasized.” 

Since then, he has undergone chemotherapy, a mastectomy, two additional surgeries and 10 weeks of radiation therapy. He also recently spent six weeks in a wheelchair after a hip biopsy.  

From Diagnosis to Advocacy 

Over the last two and a half years, Jake has turned his metastatic breast cancer (MBC) diagnosis into a personal mission.  

“Breast cancer is still seen as the pink disease—a woman’s disease,” Jake said. “I’m hoping to try and change that through the advocacy I do and by walking in the Komen 3-Day.” 

Through his TikTok account @theguywithstage4breastcancer, Jake shares his story to raise awareness and remind men to listen to their bodies and speak up when something doesn’t seem right.  

If I can make an impact with whatever time I left have,” he said. “I want it to be this: men can get breast cancer.”  

Jake Messier takin a selfie at his chemotherapy appointment.

Putting the MEN in KOMEN 

That mission is what’s driving Jake to walk in the Boston 3-Day this summer. With his team, Putting the MEN in KOMEN, he hopes to raise $10,000 and bring greater visibility to male breast cancer. 

“The Boston 3-Day is a big event,” he said. “If people see me, a man, holding a sign that says men can get breast cancer too, and they remember that—that matters and that is huge.” 

To register for the 3-Day, visit the3day.org. 

Statements and opinions expressed are those of the individual and do not express the views or opinions of Susan G. Komen. This information is being provided for educational purposes only and is not to be construed as medical advice. Persons with breast cancer should consult their health care provider with specific questions or concerns about their treatment.
 

The 3-Day and the “Bravest Scared Mom”: Heather’s Story

Heather B. at the 2025 Susan G. Komen Boston 3-Day.

The 2025 Susan G. Komen Boston 3-Day® was Heather B.’s first breast cancer event, and it was unlike anything she had ever experienced. Over the course of three days, she pushed herself physically and mentally, formed new friendships and discovered just how strong she had become. 

But just a few years earlier, Heather’s life looked very different. 

She was 39, living at home on lockdown with two young children during the coronavirus pandemic, when she received a phone call that changed everything: “Heather, you have breast cancer.” 

There’s no way to prepare for that kind of news. Heather was terrified, but through that fear, she made a promise to herself. 

“I was going to be the bravest scared mom ever,” she said. 

Connecting to Others During Treatment 

Heather went through 16 rounds of chemotherapy, 28 sessions of radiation therapy, a double mastectomy and a full hysterectomy. She wanted to be as proactive as possible in her treatment. Just six months earlier, her children had lost their grandmother to cancer. 

“I was determined they would not lose their mom, too,” she said. 

The pandemic made an already overwhelming journey even harder. Heather’s care team required her to come alone for her medical appointments and treatments. No visitors. No hand to hold. No comfort of familiar faces. At times, she felt isolated, so she turned to online communities for connection.  

“I found others going through the same thing—and those relationships quickly became my lifeline,” she said. 

Heather B. and her friends at the 2025 Susan G. Komen Boston 3-Day.

Finding Purpose 

Somewhere in the middle of all the chaos that comes with a life-altering diagnosis, Heather found something unexpected: purpose. By supporting others diagnosed with breast cancer, sharing what she learned through her diagnosis and “simply listening,” she found healing in unexpected ways. 

In June, Heather celebrated five years as a survivor. She said people often question why she remains involved with the breast cancer community since she has already “beaten” cancer.  Heather said it’s simply because, “the journey doesn’t end when treatment does.” It carries lifelong impacts including physical and emotional side effects, scars, surgeries, anxiety, hormonal changes, fear and fatigue.  

“So, until there’s a cure, I’ll keep showing up— for myself, for my kids and for everyone sitting in a chemo chair feeling scared and uncertain, just like I did,” Heather added.  

For Heather, showing up began at her first 3-Day walk in Boston, and will continue at the 2027 Tampa Bay 3-Day, where she has plans to walk with her sister. For this “brave” mom, the strength that once carried her through breast cancer now carries her forward to offer hope to others. 

 

2025 New England 3-Day Top Fundraisers

2025 New England 3-Day Celebration of Champions

The 2025 Susan G. Komen New England 3-Day® was nothing short of extraordinary, thanks in large part to our top fundraisers. This year, 930 dedicated walkers and crew members raised $2.4 million for breast cancer research, community health, patient care and advocacy. 

At our Celebration of Champions, generously supported by our national presenting sponsor Bank of America, we honored the individuals and teams whose dedication went above and beyond. This year, Bank of America donated over $33,000 to help our top fundraisers kick off their 2026 3-Day fundraising efforts. 

From first-time walkers to seasoned crew, these champions brought the energy, passion and dedication that define what the 3-Day is all about. 

Kristin S. was honored as Top Crew Fundraiser, raising more than $9,000. Her dedication reflects the commitment our crew members bring to the 3-Day both on and off the route. 

Kristin S. was the top crew fundraiser at the 2025 New England 3-Day Celebration of Champions.

The New England 3-Day Youth Corps were a fantastic support to our walkers throughout the 3-Day weekend and did a great job fundraising. Ali W. was the top Youth Corps fundraiser, raising over $1,700 for the 3-Day.  

Top Youth Corps fundraisers at the 2025 New England 3-Day

Pit Stop Four and their captains, Alison G. and Laurie D., were recognized as the Top Fundraising Crew Team. They raised nearly $23,000!  

Pit Stop Four named Top Fundraising Crew Team at the 2025 New England 3-Day

First-time walker Gregory B. made his mark on the 3-Day, raising over $14,000 and earning the Rookie of the Year award. We are so excited to have you in the 3-Day family, Gregory! 

Our Top Individual Fundraisers led the way and showcased their unwavering commitment in the fight to end breast cancer by raising an extraordinary amount for Susan G. Komen®. 

 

This year our #3 fundraiser was Francie L., our #2 fundraiser was Carol Ann P. and our #1 top fundraiser was Roseline D. who raised over $23,000! 

And our #1 Top Fundraising Team was Team Go Rose, led by captain Roseline M. 2. Together they raised an amazing $56,279! Team Go Rose is also this year’s winner of our Small but Mighty Award which goes to a team with less than 10 members that raises the most money. 

Team Go Rose wins the Small but Might award at the 2025 New England 3-Day

Congratulations, Roseline and Team Go Rose!! 

We are so grateful to all our incredible fundraisers and supporters who made the New England 3-Day one for the books.