Each year, the San Diego Police Department attends the Susan G. Komen 3-Day® to provide support and safety along the costal route. Many officers cherish volunteering at this event where they get to join the Pink Bubble and sport their favorite pink accessories, including Paul S. who served 30 years on the force. Best known at the event for his elaborate hair styles, 2023 marked Paul’s 12th year as a volunteer at the Komen San Diego 3-Day. His iconic look began when he decided to dye his hair pink and shave in the breast cancer ribbon to add a bit of joy for those taking on the tremendous feat of walking 60 miles in just three days. As time progressed, walkers began seeking out Paul along the route to see which unique design he etched into the side of his head that year.
He first discovered the 3-Day® through a police department announcement and knew that he wanted to participate after learning how inspiring the event was. As the years of volunteering have grown, his desire to participate only increases with the tremendous relationships he builds, the support he receives, and the safety he’s able to provide. “[Everyone] treats us police officers as rock stars… It is great to have so many people love you for what you do day in and day out, but most of all I am there for [the walkers],” he shares. “I lift their spirits and they lift mine. Those years when I was a full-time police officer, it was what recharged my batteries so that when I went back to work, I knew that I was loved for who I am and what I do. There is no feeling like being there in uniform, seeing the look in the walkers’ eyes, and feeling the love they have for us… They treat us like we walk on water, but honestly, we officers do not come close to how special the walkers are.”
Paul has always had a tremendous appreciation for the survivors and thrivers. The first year that he volunteered he was blown away by how inspiring the participants are. However, this year, he felt an even closer connection to the walkers as he was diagnosed with thyroid cancer on June 10th, 2023, which had metastasized to his lungs, liver and spine. Just a few months before the 2023 San Diego 3-Day, Paul underwent six and a half hours of surgery and began treatment, including medication and radiation. In October of 2023, he had a CT scan when the doctors discovered a saddle pulmonary embolism in his lungs for which he was immediately admitted into the emergency room. After his release from the hospital, Paul decided that the best way through this was to remain positive and keep busy with his volunteer work, including coaching high school football, working at a PGA golf tournament, and, of course, the 3-Day.
The following month, Paul was back in his favorite place: the Pink Bubble. “I was so happy to be alive every day and had a positive attitude about my journey. I wanted to help others keep their positive attitude… more than ever, and I wanted them to help me continue my positive attitude,” he beamed. “I wanted to let them all know that anything is possible if you just stay positive.” After the 2023 3-Day, Paul’s spirits have never been higher, and he shares that he walked away a better person for being there and for participating in the incredible event. He finds solace in his family and friends, through volunteering at events like the 3-Day, and by reminding himself of how much good he’s been able to do throughout his career. Since beginning his service in 1988, Paul was able to lead, mentor, and give advice to countless officers and detectives, and takes tremendous pride in helping them achieve their goals.
He expresses a tremendous amount of gratitude to the San Diego Police Department for allowing him to participate in the 3-Day all these years. “But most of all I want to thank all the walkers I have known over these years for being there and for allowing them to touch my life and make it have more meaning.”
The 3-Day community is endlessly grateful for all that the San Diego Police Department has done for us throughout the years. Their support and service are integral to what makes the San Diego 3-Day such a momentous event each and every year. We extend our positivity to Paul as he continues to battle this journey and hope to see him again in 2024.