In 2005, Vivian O.’s beloved Mom lost her fight with breast cancer. In her grief, Vivian discovered the power of the Suan G. Komen 3-Day®. Her journey with the Komen 3-Day started in Tampa Bay and has continued for more than 30 events since 2006. In the last 18 years, she has traveled to various cities, walked many ‘Komen miles,’ worked on different crews, met hundreds of people, camped out, used port-a-potties, and found a safe place amidst all the pink to heal and grow.
“Twenty months. That was all the time my mom had after her diagnosis before the cancer took her. I was left with emotions and feelings I didn’t know what to do with. When I saw an advertisement for the Tampa Bay 3-Day, I decided to join as a crew member. That one decision helped in a way I will forever be grateful for because it gave me a purpose, a way to honor my mother, and a way to help in the fight against breast cancer. So, what does the 3-Day® mean to me? It means community, it means belonging, it means commitment. It means cheering the last walker into camp, 3-Day macaroni and cheese, route arrows, and seas of pink. However, the most important thing the 3-Day gives me is an outlet to process my grief with people that understand my loss in a way others do not. Cancer takes a toll on families and grieving the loss of someone important is hard and lonely, but the 3-Day taught me it doesn’t have to be done alone and there are moments when all you can do is walk. So, if you find yourself in a similar situation, my advice is to find yourself a 3-Day and start walking!
“Over the years, I have been both a walker and a crew member and have enjoyed both experiences immensely. As a crew member, I have been on different road crews, including route safety (motorcycle), route hydration, sweep and for the last several years, I have focused on route marking, which is the crew that lays down the route the walkers will take each day. There is so much I enjoy about it—the camaraderie, talking with and learning about each person, and hearing everyone’s stories as to why they crew. I enjoy being part of the walk’s backbone because all the crew teams together make up the foundation of any 3-Day. I love knowing that I’m one person amongst many that provide services and support to assist the walkers in being able to do their part in walking, fundraising, and helping Komen be a leader in cancer research and medical advancements. I enjoy the physical nature of crewing, the hard work, and having a singular goal for the duration of the 3-Day. I enjoy the energy that is put out by the Pink Bubble, with the traditions and structures that are so familiar and dear to me after so many years and events. And with each mile I walk, each dollar I fundraise, and each time I crew, I’m doing something, no matter how small, to help in the fight against breast cancer and bringing critical services to people that need it. In doing so, I honor my mom and that is what I’m most proud of.
“My mom was from Spain, and so I will leave you with a saying she used to tell my sisters and I all the time, and considering what the 3-Day does, I felt it was appropriate. ‘Pisa con el pie derecho’ which translates to ‘step with your right (best) foot forward.’
“There is strength in walking with a group of people in the same direction for the same cause, because EVERYONE deserves a lifetime. So, whether you’re a walker or a crew member or support someone, remember to always step with your best foot forward, one ‘Komen mile’ at a time.”